10 Tough Money Questions, Answered!
Financial stability often feels elusive, but it doesn't have to. Here are the answers to 10 tough money questions to help you get your financial house in order.
Letβs face it. Money is not everyoneβs strong suit. Especially in an age of mass consumerism, financial stability can feel elusive. But with the right financial professional by your side β and the right information to guide you β that stability can be obtained.
We reached out to Emily Dafferner and Reid Wesson, CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNERSβ’ at Reliant Investment Management, to find out some of the pressing questions they believe everyone should be asking when it comes to money management. We hope you find some useful information that will help get you on the road to long-term financial stability.

Whatβs the first step in establishing a strong financial plan?
The first step is to develop a plan and have the intention to stick to it. Itβs a process of developing your goals and objectives β knowing what you want to accomplish with your money and also acknowledging your strengths and weaknesses. Itβs important to know your strengths because those will help you reach your goal. And then also your struggles or pitfalls, so you know what to look out for along the way. From there, your plan should capitalize on your strengths and minimize those weaknesses.
Another thing to note with developing a financial plan is that accountability helps. If youβre married, that accountability could come from your spouse. If youβre single, it could be a friend who youβre honest and real with when it comes to finances. On top of that, itβs great to have a financial advisor who will help you prioritize and make decisions.
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What pieces of information are good to have before meeting with a financial advisor?
Youβll need your current financial data. That includes your income, any investment or retirement accounts, credit accounts and any debt. All of those are helpful to have because what youβre going to look at in that first meeting is where you stand. To do that, we need all the facts. Itβs also good to be prepared just to talk about what you want to accomplish with your money. What are those goals and objectives? Your output is only going to be as good as your input. You need to provide as many details as possible.
What are some simple ways to gain more financial control?
Awareness matters. You have to know exactly where youβre spending your money. Know what you own, and know what you owe. If youβre unaware, then start to track your spending habits for a couple of months. Take a look at every dollar spent, and youβll see what your habits are. There are plenty of mobile apps and technology that can help. Or, you can just do it manually at the end of the month.

What are some βsneakyβ ways money slips through the cracks?
Subscriptions. Find out what your recurring charges are β any automatic payments going out. Itβs a good process to check those subscriptions to see if youβre duplicating anything or just not using one of those services. Honestly, those are practices we can do every year, and that will trim a significant amount of money from your spending.
What are some of the most common pitfalls of financial planning?
One is simply not paying attention to what youβre doing with your money. Money should serve a purpose for you and accomplish a goal. Not being intentional is a big pitfall. Another is setting a plan thatβs too constraining. If you set the parameters really tight, then thereβs no freedom. It shouldnβt be painful. Itβs good to have some flexibility to account for lifestyle shifts and changes. We all know things happen in life that change our circumstances, and thatβs when flexibility really matters. Another big pitfall is just not being honest with yourself about where youβre struggling. Itβs best to be honest, especially if youβre working with a financial planner. Be honest about what your habits are. If youβre willing to do that, then youβll be better equipped to set yourself up for success.
Should I pay down and/or off my loans or save and invest more?
It depends on your circumstances. It depends on the type of debt, the interest rates youβre paying and your earning capacity. You should never forgo free money. By that, we mean, if your employer is offering a match to your retirement savings, thatβs free money and you need to take advantage of that. Thatβs money you should save. Itβs good to prioritize paying off bad or high-interest debts, but at the same time, itβs still important to accomplish long-term goals β like retirement savings. Itβs really a multifaceted answer.

How do I know if my estate plan is up to date? How often should I review it?
You should review and update your estate plan every time you have a major life change. That would be something like marriage, divorce, birth, adoption or adding to your family in some other capacity. It could also be death or disability β all of these things are reasons to revisit your estate plan and make sure that it is set up to accomplish what you want it to accomplish. Whether thatβs making a provision for your family, or if youβre an empty nester, then leaving a legacy β whatever that may look like. Itβs good to review it every couple of years anyway. Most people donβt, but it really is a good idea just to think, βIs this still what I want to do with the finances I have? Is this still how I want my money to be used when Iβm gone?β
How should I prioritize my savings (i.e., 401k, IRA, taxable, etc.)?
The first thing you want to do is take advantage of any employer match for your retirement account. Secondary to that, we do encourage individual retirement accounts. Itβs good to prioritize a Roth account if youβre eligible for it. Youβre saving money by investing money youβve already paid taxes on, but that money, particularly if youβre young, has the opportunity to grow for 30 or 40 years tax-free. Those withdrawals, when the time comes, come out without tax. And, itβs tax-free to your heirs, should you not spend it in your lifetime. If youβre not able to do that, then thereβs nothing wrong with saving in a traditional IRA account. It just has different tax rules associated with it.
Also, itβs wise to always save first. If you wait to save so you spend on everything else β there wonβt be anything left over. Learn to have it automatically drafted from your check, or just be disciplined to save first. That will be your key to success.
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How much should I be spending on major purchases (i.e., house, car, etc.)?
Itβs dependent upon circumstances like your income and the amount of savings you currently have. We can give you the general rule of thumb that you want your housing expenses to be 30 percent or less of your gross income. If youβre thinking about buying a car, donβt finance it for six or seven years. Make it a shorter amount of time, and it shouldnβt be more than about eight or 10 percent of your gross income. Itβs all dependent on what you can afford based on your other expenses.
Whatβs the importance of an emergency fund?
A statistic came out last year that 40 percent of Americans cannot afford a $400 surprise expense. Thatβs kind of a staggering number. If youβre in this category, youβre not alone. This should encourage you to strive to build an emergency fund. It keeps you from going into debt for surprise expenses. We all know that things happen. Sometimes appliances break, or we need new tires or our car breaks down. Sometimes we unexpectedly lose our jobs. You need to be prepared to cover those unexpected expenses βΒ and thatβs what an emergency fund allows you to do. Once you have it, if you have to use it, itβs important to replenish it and build it back up.
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