Meet “The Mahjologist” of Memphis, Cassie Lazzo
If you don't know a bam from a crack, it may be time to call in "The Mahjologist!" Through her mahjong classes and events, Cassie Lazzo is creating a fun, welcoming community where strangers become friends and people from all walks of life gather around the same table. Image: Amy Threadgill Photography
By day, she’s a registered nurse and busy mother of three. But around Memphis, this enthusiastic dynamo is known by another title inspired by her love of a certain popular game. Meet Cassie Lazzo, “The Mahjologist,” who’s turning a beloved pastime into a thriving community.
When did you first discover mahjong, and what was it about the game that hooked you?
My mom taught my whole family how to play mahjong back in 2023. I have always loved games of all kinds and was instantly drawn to the challenge. After she taught us, I read every book I could find on strategy, watched countless YouTube videos, and tried my best to teach as many people as possible so I could have friends to play with!
Why do you think the game is having such a moment right now?
First and foremost, I love how much mahjong has grown in popularity. I actually don’t think it’s “having a moment” because I believe it is here to stay. I think the world we live in can often seem divided, and mahjong has a way of bringing us together. People are constantly looking for ways to get off their phones and truly connect. Mahj does just that! American Mahjong has been around for 88 years. It took me way too long to find it.
How did “The Mahjologist” come to be? Was there a moment when you realized this could become more than a hobby?
I never intended to start a mahjong business. I invited friends over during a snow day to teach them how to play. One of them took a photo of the game and put it on Instagram. The next thing I knew, I was teaching seven to eight lessons per week. Three years later, I am still teaching and hosting events. I’m excited to announce that I’m hosting my first tournament at The Memphian Hotel in August. It’s going to be amazing — join us!
What’s your approach to teaching Mahjong, especially for women who might feel intimidated or unsure about learning?
HAVE FUN! I have found that students (no matter their age) usually catch on quickly when they don’t overthink things. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. I often tell my students that part of the learning process is feeling confused at times. Eventually, it will all come together, and you will be so happy you took the time to learn this wonderful game.
What’s been the most surprising reaction you’ve gotten from someone after they learned to play?
My students get hooked quickly, and many of them go all in! So far, I have taught 14 people who have now become mahjong instructors themselves. I’ve had people tell me how grateful they are to have learned the game and have something fun to do with their family besides sitting around and watching TV. That makes me so happy!
One of my favorite aspects of mahjong is how it brings together people who might not otherwise cross paths. Multiple times a week, you can find me playing with people of all ages from all over the city. I love how many new friends I have made through this game. I run a league of 120 players with Bethany McRae of Mahjong Merriment, and our league players can’t get enough. A little friendly competition is good for the soul!
How did your career in nursing shape the way you approach community, connection, or even teaching mahjong?
Patience. Patience. Patience. Need I say more? Patience is key to teaching mahjong. And it is key to being a good player as well. Everyone, and I mean everyone, is capable of learning to play. Some just take a little longer than others, and that is okay.
What does a perfect mahjong night look like to you?
Any night with mahjong is perfect, in my opinion. Whether I’m playing at home with my family or I’m in a fancy setting with friends, I just love the game. If it’s girls’ night, add an espresso martini and let’s mahj all night long!
What’s a daily ritual you never skip?
Coffee. (Again: full-time job, three kids, and mahjong business.)
What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received and from whom?
“You’ve got to know when to hold ‘em … know when to fold ‘em,” from the song “The Gambler” by Kenny Rogers. Good advice for poker, mahjong … and of course, life!
LIGHTNING ROUND!
Favorite “hidden gem” in Memphis? The Hub! It’s the BEST spot to grab a coffee and play some morning mahjong.
Your go-to mid-mahjong snack or drink? Sauvignon Blanc with frozen jalapeño slices. Cheers!
What word would your friends use to describe you at the Mahjong table? Savvy. I know the rules inside and out, and I play to win!
A great book you’ve enjoyed recently? Theo of Golden for pleasure. Mahjongg Made Easy for rule clarifications. Every player should own this book.
Bucket list vacation destination? Argentina for wine, fly-fishing, and of course some mahjong by the river!
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Gaye Swan
As a professional writer of over 20 years, Gaye is an avid traveler and enjoys highlighting food, culture, and attractions around the South. While Gaye is passionate about life in Memphis, she grew up in Meridian and is still a Mississippi girl at heart.